- [[2024-03-06]] - https://norasamaran.com/2016/07/21/for-men-who-desperately-need-autonomy-make-it-dont-take-it/ https://norasamaran.com/2016/02/10/variations-on-not-all-men/ > Sometimes he can’t tell the difference between him feeling bad _because_ _he hurt somebody_, and feeling bad because someone hurt him.