> By helping me see my flaws as part of a larger pattern that I can live with -- more like an overextension of my virtues than a repudiation of them -- it has introduced some optionality around conflict and self-righteousness and forgiveness that wasn’t there before. > [[There are nine wolves inside of you]] Of course the strongest transmission of this "wound and gift are inseparable" comes to me from [[Vajrayana]] via [[Luminous]], [[David Chapman]], etc.